Downsizing stress
November 8â14 is Mental Health Wellness Week, a public education campaign that focuses on promoting mental health wellness across the country.
What’s your stress size? If itâs extra-large, youâre not alone: 25 percent of Americans say theyâre âsuper-stressed.â But whether stress is small, medium or large, too much can contribute to big health problems, from migraines to depression, from diabetes to cancer. Fortunately, there are plenty of healthy ways to downsize stress. Four MultiCare experts share their tips for reclaiming your calm.
Let action absorb anxiety
âHumans evolved to deal with stress in one of two ways â by fighting or running away,â says Taryn West, Healthy@Work Wellness Coordinator for MultiCare. And back in the day, fighting off an enemy or fleeing a predatory animal not only saved lives; it dissipated stress.
Though stressors have changed over the millennia, they still trigger that fight-or-flight response. Of course, whether youâre facing a looming deadline, a flat tire â or even lifeâs good stuff, like buying a home â fight-or-flight isnât practical. âWe have to learn to deal with todayâs pressures in ways that suit modern life,â West says.
One proven strategy: Get moving. âAction absorbs anxiety,â says Bev Utt, Wellness Dietitian at MultiCare. Sheâs talking, in part, about the post-exercise euphoria that makes you feel relaxed. So, since you wonât be battling any predators (and canât run from your Outlook calendar): Choose an exercise you enjoy. And practice it for at least 30 minutes, almost every day. Need a new workout? Consider yoga or tai chi. Both include two sure ways to get your calm on: meditation and focused deep breathing.
Listen
Surprising but true: Listening attentively relieves stress. âListening lowers our blood pressure and can cause the brain to release serotonin and dopamine, two of the bodyâs feel-good chemicals,â West says. To practice, try this activity:
- Ask a friend to share a childhood memory.
- Look him or her in the eyes.
- Relinquish your thoughts and focus only on what youâre hearing.
- Resist the urge to interrupt.
- Donât speak until your friend is finished.
âListening also helps us build relationships,â West says. And social interaction is a proven stress buster.
Practice self-care
âIâm always taking care of everyone but me.â So women have been telling Dawna Schroeder, Master Esthetician at MultiCare ENT, Allergy & Med Aesthetics â Puyallup, throughout her career. âBut if you donât take care of yourself, youâre not going to be able to take care of other people very well,â she says. Thatâs why she and Lisa Gainey, Licensed Massage Practitioner, recommend giving yourself the gift of a visit to a medical spa for a massage or to address concerns about your skin.
âDuring massage, your body releases endorphins, which are natural pain killers,â Gainey says. âMassage increases the flow of oxygen, reduces your heart rate and calms the nervous system.â
It also promotes a good nightâs sleep, another key for controlling stress. To enhance the experience, Gainey often uses lavender essential oil,* which may help reduce the stress hormone cortisol. She suggests keeping some at work, where a quick whiff can help clear your head.
Take comfort in quality carbs
From mac and cheese made with refined pasta to chocolate chip cookies, carbohydrates top many lists of comfort food faves. Now, carbs arenât necessarily bad.
âTheyâre the fuel of choice to run our bodies,â says Utt. âBut we need to choose the right carbs: whole grains, fruits and veggies, beans.â
To give food a positive role in managing stress, Utt suggests learning to differentiate between emotional hunger and physical hunger:
Emotional hunger
- Comes on suddenly
- Needs to be satisfied instantly
- Isnât satisfied with a full stomach
Physical hunger
- Comes on gradually
- Can wait to be satisfied
- Stops when you feel full
*Lavender essential oil is safe for pregnant women. However, not all essential oils are. If
youâre expecting, consult your doctor before using any other oils.
This story was originally published in September 2014 and updated in November 2015.